justmarylex ♥

     Hey hey, so here I am.. not knowing what to talk about today so let me just jabber and babble on about random things. But it seems like EVERYONE always talks about the 'LOVE' matter. So here is what I have learned.. love doesn't occur whenever you want it to be, it occurs unexpectedly. Also it happens at the moments where you don't even want it to happen, but when your desperate to love or someone to love you back.. it rarely happens. So my advice to all the loveless people out there, don't be so desperate to find that one boy/girl, just go with the flow and it'll come your way quicker than you think. And to the people who are trying to forget someone or trying to move on, your in no rush so take all the time you can. You won't forget that person in an instant if you loved or really liked that person. Don't be scared to look at old pictures/videos/conversations that you had... that way in the future when you look at it again, you would get used to that feeling until it won't hurt you anymore.. it might sound cliche but I think that way you can let go much easier than running away and hiding all the pictures and being scared to look at them. Cos' no matter how you hide it, it will resurface again  in the future for you to be reminded. Its better to be brave and not be scared to look at old memories. You don't have to forget the memories you should just look back and smile and think to yourself 'huh, those were good days and bad days' and then look forward to your future.. don't be stuck thinking about the past too much. Its good to look back sometimes, but try not to do it often lol.

'He came in my life at the wrong time' - FUCK that. If you think you love him/her, punch through the obstacles and get on with it. Fight for it, its your life.. but make sure your making a wise decision :)
Because once you get yourself in a situation, its hard to get out unscratched.