11 Sept 2013
There is no such thing is as a 'perfect couple'. We have a lot of differences and it's either we accept it, change it or leave it. But one thing a lot of couples have in common is that there is a lot of trust issues within their relationships. It's the serious relationships that has the most difficult situations that they have to face.
There is no easy way out of this, you have to build it up again or just try to forget it and try not to care. In my opinion, building it up and forgetting will end up in hurtful ways. So you built it up and then the littlest things that could happen again will hurt twice as more and you'll be even more paranoid than ever and lose hope really and may not ever trust anyone else again. And forgetting it won't do any good either, because first of all, YOU CAN NEVER FORGET bad experiences permanently. You can try not to think about it but it will always be in your memory. So if you are successful at forgetting it and not thinking about it, then it gets you into a 'cold' state. It's not good for you and for your partner to have that cold treatment because that will lose your motivation to keep the relationship going.
So the best thing I can think of is to accept the situation, try to trust him bit by bit but keep your guard up and always expect the worst but don't be paranoid. Be the kind of person that enjoys 'going with the flow', less thinking and do more practical things with your partner and maybe things will get better in time. There is no solution to 'trust issues' so just try to be the best of it and overcome it. HAVE A NICE DAY! :)
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