I'm not an expert in this but I will share the things that makes it easier to move on. First of all, there is no easy way but there are things that ease the pain or any discomfort that you may feel.
Step one - Try to avoid being alone everyday. Call up your friends and ask who is up for meeting up, visit an old friend, have dinner with them, play in the arcades with someone, watch the cinemas and etc.
Step two - Do the hobbies you stopped doing so much because you had to spend time with your ex-boyfriend. Start singing, dancing, painting, drawing, exercise, being creative, reading, photography, playing online games, whatever really that you used to enjoy doing when you were happily single.
Step three - Try something new. Do things you have never done before and go to places you have never gone to before, experience new memories.
Step four - Avoid reminiscing about what happened. But don't try to forget, because the more you try to forget the more you remember.
Step five - Treat and pamper yourself! Go to a spa shop and get treated!
Step six - Don't forget to party and have a good time with your friends! But drink moderately, drinking too much could be a disaster for you and it will cause you to be emotionally unstable.
Step seven - Don't delete your photo's, videos and other memories until you can finally delete it with no sign of regret. When you have moved on, then it is safe to delete it when there are no feelings involved. Because deleting it when you haven't moved on will just be running or hiding away from your problem.
And final step? - Be the beautiful you and smile like there's no tomorrow. "Don't be sad because it ended, be happy because it happened." There will always be things that we would like to change in the past, but the best way to overcome the regrets is to simply accept it. It is what it is and it may not seem like it? But a better person will come into your life sooner or later, no matter what just be patient and enjoy being single. You don't need a man to make you happy, the world is big and complex, go on and live it :).
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